
Benjamin Schafer
July 12, 1927 - August 03, 2017
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Schafer, Benjamin, of Saginaw, Michigan, our beloved husband, father, grandfather, and great-grandfather, died on Thursday, August 3, 2017 at Covenant HealthCare-Cooper. He was 90 years old. Benjamin Schafer was born on July 12, 1927 in Gilford, Michigan to the late David and Eva (Laubhan) Schafer. He married Mary Margaret "Tootie" Weigl on September 23, 1950; she survives him. He attended Arthur Hill Trade School and graduated with the Class of 1944. He then served in the United States Army in Europe during World War II. Following his honorable discharge, Ben was employed at Lufkin for 18 years before going to General Motors, retiring on August 1, 1989. He was a former member of Immanuel Lutheran Church and a current member of St. Dominic Parish. Ben was always more than willing to give advice and help in fixing or building things, as long as it was his way. Ben had a great sense of humor and joked about many things. He was also one of the best "arm chair" cooks around! Ben & Tootie spent their retirement years at their home on "Schafer Pond", where they had many happy times. He loved fishing and enjoyed his home. He took great pride in his yard and pond. He loved to dance and had many favorite songs, especially polka and country music. He made many friends on the dance floor as he danced throughout life. His strong faith in God provided himself and his family guidance throughout life. Ben's family was the light of his life. Ben is survived by his wife of 66 years, Mary Margaret; four sons and three daughters: Stephen (Judith) Schafer of Saginaw, Benjamin (Marsha) Schafer of Saline, Gary (Susan) Schafer of Richmond, Douglas (Laurie Sue) Schafer of Vassar, Debra (Gary) Bishop of Saginaw, Kimberly (Richard) Blanchard of Carlsbad, CA, and Sandra (Fred Vlassis Jr.) Schafer of Saginaw; many loving grandchildren & great-grandchildren; sister, Martha Metiva; sister-in-law, Rachel Schafer; and many loving nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his parents; two grandchildren; three sisters; and five brothers. FUNERAL: A Funeral Liturgy will take place at 10:00 a.m. on Tuesday, August 8, 2017 at St. Dominic Parish, St. Stephen Catholic Church, 1310 Malzahn. Rev. Fr. George Serour will officiate. Rite of Committal and military honors will follow in St. Andrew Cemetery. VISITATION: Friends are welcome to visit with the family at the Deisler Funeral Home, 2233 Hemmeter Rd. (off State) on Monday, August 7, 2017 from 2:00 p.m. until 8:00 p.m. A Vigil service will be held at 7: 00 p.m. on Monday lead by Sister Elaine Raymond. Ben will lie in state at the church on Tuesday from 9:00 a.m. until the time of Mass at 10:00 a.m. MEMORIALS: In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy may wish to consider memorials to the National Multiple Sclerosis Society - Michigan Chapter, 21311 Civic Center Dr., Southfield, Michigan 48076 or to the charity of the donor's choice. Arrangements are entrusted to the Deisler Funeral Home, 2233 Hemmeter Rd. (off State). Please share your thoughts and memories with the family at the funeral home, church, or through www.deislerfuneralhome.com.
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Carol Husted
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Tootie and family , We are so saddened from the Loss of Ben, We have felt so bad that we haven't been sharing as much time with you both because of our schedules. From the very fist day we met you at the Evergreen we Loved you Both so much. We have had such wonderful memories, laughs, tears, and joyful moments with you!; We can't tell you enough how much we Care! We want to continue our friendship and helpfulness with you as best we can and when you need us, we would be there! We Love you , and we will forever MISS this wonderful friend we had. You are in our prayers and thoughts!!
Love from the Girls, Carol , Connie, and Judy
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Wilma Ostrander
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BEN you sure well be missed I wont be able to mess up your hair do any more I always loved to rub your head an tell you that you would have to get it done again GOD you guys were just great dancers love to your family well keep them in my prayers.
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Joyce Fisher
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Tootie and Ben you have put so much joy in our lives every since our first meeting at the Club Evergreen. Will never forget our waltzes, your crazy hairy hat, your laugh, singing while we danced, your kindness to everyone, the racehorse game, the two of you and your shared love. Thank you thank you thank you for letting us be a small part of your lives. I know that Ben went out doing what he loved. Waltz with all the angels there in Heaven Ben. For a small man you have left an awfully big hole in our hearts.
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Helen Gulliver
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Ben, what an awesome man , no words can explain how much joy he brought to all who knew him. Everyone loved Ben. I will never forget the wonderful times we have spent with Ben and Tootie.No doubt the angels were rejoicing when Ben waltzed through those Pearly Gates.
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Anonymous
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European Sympathy Dish Garden was purchased for the family of Benjamin Schafer.
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Cathy Tafel
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RIP Uncle Ben! Hugs and prayers to Mary and family...:dizzy: