Timothy Gray

Training Officer Gray was my training officer when I hired on the department. I remember, though fitness was always a major part of my life, I was in the worst shape ever during those first couple of weeks (another story). Duringl a training exercise and after using an axe to cut a hole in a hard wood floor, I felt the urge to faint. I told him so, which I felt was better than just falling flat on my face. He allowed me to sit down, relax and with steam coming from my head, get my stuff together. He seemed to understand my feelings and at no point did he add to my embarrassment. In fact he was just the opposite, encouraging and positive. I never forgot that moment and it helped shape my attitude throughout my career. Years later, I was honored with winning the prestigious "Firefighter of the Year" award Chief Gray came to Fordney Park a couple of mornings prior to the ceremony just to have a private talk and a cup of coffee. I asked him if it was okay if I say a few words since prior winners had not. I explained how important this award was to me and my family, I assured him I would keep it positive. Again he seemed to understand my feelings and allowed me the honor to publicly express my gratitude. These are small moments but they're memories of appreciation I'll always cherish. Tyrone E. Harge Battalion Chief (Retired)

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Barb And Jim Chernow lit a candle in memory of Timothy Michael Gray

I am honored and blessed to have been hired into the SFD when Chief Gray was at the helm. To this day and always will remember what he did for all of us and how he always stood behind us even in his position. Chief Gray was there for me through all the good times and bad--the tragedies we all have gone through in life, we could always count of Chief to help us see the positive outcome. One can never forget his fave line---smokem if you gotem, bummem' if you don't! Treasures we all will have in our hearts for life. A. Smith